Red flags in dating men
“I’m High Maintenance” This falls under the category of “believe her.” Sure, maybe you’re into high maintenance women and that makes this not a red flag for you — but probably not.
Don’t just look for her to say that she’s high maintenance as a red flag; Keep your eyes peeled for language on her online dating profile that show you that she’s high maintenance.
But Dan Neuharth, licensed marriage and family therapist, says “you need to find out just how separated he is.
He may be legitimately finished with his marriage emotionally, but the paperwork isn't final. They may be on a trial separation, seeking variety, or way too fresh from a bad relationship to date seriously.” And if the person is still talking about their ex, that’s a red flag. Another one should be added: When a woman says her children come first, over everything else. However, to me, it means I am going to get stood up a lot; that when I am with someone they aren’t going to give me their undivided attention when we aren’t with her kids; and that a woman isn’t really interested in a relationship and is hiding behind her kids.
Neuharth also notes that while it’s common for men to want to date women younger than themselves, if there's too much of an age gap, it's a sign he’s probably not looking for an equal partner in the relationship. One had to be held back by other members of his family when he tried to assault me. All I heard was “Queenie” this, and “Queenie” that. From a mother’s perspective, let me give you a reason why I would put my child over a man.
No photo, or a grainy, out-of-focus or outdated photo, are a sign that the person probably has something to hide, or else is not really serious about the dating process.
But Vondie Lozano, licensed marriage and family therapist, has some other not-so-obvious flags to add to the list.
begin online, according to a 2013 study released by the National Academy of Sciences.
But while online dating may be a great way to find your soul mate, you’ll be confronted with thousands of candidates.