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For other situations it could be having different religions or beliefs or just something as simple as not feeling a strong connection as quickly as he expected.Now I’m not saying this is what happened but I think this scenario is more likely the cause than compliments or long emails.I think one of three things is likely to happen if you send an email like this: For the first or second case, that would cause me to believe even more in my theory that he has started talking with someone else. This email isn’t about saving the relationship anymore, it’s simply about understanding what happened so you can learn for the future.In these cases, I think writing an email requesting some closure is totally acceptable. There’s no recovery from an email like this (you’ll be asking questions like “Did I say anything wrong? If, on the other hand, he apologizes for being out of touch with you then there is still a chance but I would be cautious.This is a real guessing game whenever I hear about this situation.I’ll tell you that it’s normally not a great sign mainly because of how easy it is for us to quickly communicate in today’s world and how encouraged we are to do so when we’re interested in someone.
With online dating it is common (and even encouraged) to be talking to many people at once.
” I would recommend a simple, pleasant email asking how he’s been.
Something along these lines would work fine: Hi So-and-so, How have you been doing? (Insert something here discussing some part of your life that you’ve discussed with him in the past that you can give an update on). And honestly, you could send an email like this after a few days. I understand not wanting to come off as obsessive or desperate but honestly an email after a few days is neither of these things.
You’ve been sending emails back and forth after meeting using an online dating service. The emails are getting more in-depth, you’re sharing more about each other and a first date seems all but certain. We were emailing each other every other day, and he expressed clear interest in me, with compliments, longish engaged emails, even a hint already in the last one he sent that he might want to meet (we live far apart this would be no small feat).
I have been corresponding with someone on a dating site for a couple weeks.