Lack of communication in dating
Sometimes we omit things to protect our partner’s feelings or because we’re worried they won’t like us as much if they know how we really feel.
These little white lies may not seem very important on their own but they tend to build up and can stop intimacy and trust from developing.
While it’s good to be flexible and open-minded, repressing your true feelings for fear of your partner’s response often results in a big blow up out of proportion to the final trigger which causes it. Even if it makes you feel vulnerable it’s important to be as honest as possible with your partner about your feelings.
So if you’re starting a new relationship, get on top of talking about your relationship regularly right away. [Read: 8 problems that will make your relationship stronger] #2 Start small.
Obviously your partner cannot give you their undivided attention 24/7 so it’s important to let them know when you need them to pay full attention to what you’re saying. Notice their body language and whether they are asking for your help or just sharing something with you. Try to give some time of the day to really talk to each other without the distraction of phones, TV or the internet.
A 10 minute check in at the beginning, or end, of each day can stop big problems caused by lack of communication from building up.
Take responsibility for your own happiness and be clear with your partner about how they contribute to it, or not, as the case may be. Speaking different languages In the famous book ‘Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus,’ John Gray highlighted the fact that women and men communicate in very different ways.
The biggest difference is that men communicate to impart information while women talk to share feelings.