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I want you to know that you change my life and give me strength – even when things between us were/are hard.
I want you to know that I see you, I appreciate you, even when I am challenging you to treat women like me – trans women and women of color – better than men in this society are taught to.
The existence of romance and sexuality between a man and a transwoman is a challenge to the invisible rule stating that in order to be a “real” man, you have to “win” a cisgender woman’s companionship and sexually dominate her body.
Both of these things are true because of the transmisogyny that still runs rampant in our society and the communities we live in.
And while this discrimination and hatred is mainly leveled toward girls like me, I know that some of it is reflected onto you as well.
Please know that I’m not trying to either scare you off (! As you’re probably already aware (it’s not like I let you forget these things), trans women don’t need to beg men to be into us.
Kai Cheng Thom is a Contributing Writer for Everyday Feminism.