Dating a nigeria lady disabled dating in usa
I was totally cool and unaffected by her words, you know why?Because I know opinions aren’t always facts and two, because i know lots of girls use emotions to manipulate directly or indirectly, consciously or subconsciously.All these rules applies if you are below 35 years old(below marriage age) or if you don’t plan on getting married any time soon.1)Never, ever fall in love; Yes you heard me right, you better shoot yourself in the head than fall in love, forget about the idea of love you see on TV or novels, here in Nigeria it doesn’t happen that way, if you fall in love, you are at the mercy of whoever you are in love with, although some girls are worth it, its just a very very small fraction of Nigerian girls that deserve that fairy tales types of love, a handful of them don’t value your love, even if you have money to spend on them, they would only love your money, you are nothing but a regular guy to them if its only love you have to offer them. I know a girl who has a boyfriend that she claims really love her and even willing to spend money on her, and yet she was willing to have sex with me just for the fun(yes, you heard me right) , I also know another girl who we both talk dirty to each other, even though there is a guy that really loves this girl, follows her everywhere, always ready to help her , always ready to go out of his way to please her, you know what this girl told me about him, that she feels he is a blood sucking leech. I know you are imagining that these girls I am talking about are those loose and fun loving girls that don’t care, no, they are not, the one I just told you about is a very serious girl who is decent and doesn’t look anything like a heart breaker.
At this point I was already getting a little exasperated, so I decided to offer 4 practical tips on how to date a Nigerian girl without breaking the bank.
A girl who claims to love you so much at this very moment , could wake up tomorrow to realise she doesn’t love you again, yes it has happened to me times and times over again.
5)Love yourself always; No matter what a girl might say about you, it doesn’t determine who you really are, its all emotional manipulation, some girls are prone to using emotions to manipulate guys when they believe the guy can fall, no matter what she says, just know its nothing but her opinion and it has no relationship with the truth, a girl has told me I was heartless, uncaring, inconsiderate all of a sudden without prior offence, and even after I was the only person who asked after her health and being a gentle man to her, do you know how I reacted?
Two: who are you not to crave Nigerian girls (the most exquisite brand of girls on planet earth)? The funny thing was that he had not had any personal experience with Nigerian girls.
His conclusions were based on hearsays and recounts from friends who have dated Nigerian girls.